Did sex get better?

Just thinking. 3 weeks postpartum and sex after five years TTC and miscarriages got stressful. It became like a chore that just disappointed us for so long from negative test or losing pregnancies well then during pregnancy we didn’t have sex maybe three times because we were scared of harming the baby due to all our loses so anyone in similar situation did sex get more stress free and fun after finally getting your rainbow baby? Hopefully since I’m not pregnant anymore and we won’t be nervous about baby and we aren’t TTC maybe the fun will be back