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my boy asked me to hangout and he said he wants to cuddle and make out but i have no idea what i’m doing someone help me

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Are you sure you are ready for this. He may just be saying that to get your guard down so he can take advantage of you and go further than that. I honestly would not feel comfortable unless I was dating the guy or in a relationship. One thing can lead to another and guys tend to tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. They guilt and manipulate you into caving and having sex with them or oral sex.  He does not sound like he’s asking you for a relationship, more like a friends with benefits or to use you. And if you have feelings for him and he doesn’t and just wants sex, worst heart break girl. Love that is not returned. I would not go there. He may be a player and you may not be the only girl that he is messing with. I would play it cool and be his friend. If you decide to go please be safe. And know that pre cum can get you pregnant. The pull out method is not an effective or safe form of birth control. It’s playing Russian roulette and playing with Fire. Please get on birth control and use condoms because if one fails, the other is your back up. Also know that most women can’t climax from penetration, Clitoral stimulation is a must! I’m not encouraging sex but I do want you to be well informed. Boys are full of crap. They give you false hope of a future but with no intention of it. They know girls are vulnerable and lonely and desperate for any attention or affection and use that to their advantage to take advantage of the situation and use you. You deserve better than that. You are better off alone than in bad company. You deserve the best. Wait for him. I wish I would have stayed single until I was 40 and never wasted my time on anyone. Spare yourself the heartache. Be safe. And good luck.

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if your comfortable with him, go for it! I got nervous on my first time but as long as you trust him and you think he’s the right guy than gooo for ittttt 🥰🥰🥰 lmao. Maybe you guys can watch a nice movie or smth 😋 and then yk ahah. Just saying some things i did loll.

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Tell him you don’t have much experience & don’t tense up. Just breathe & relax..follow his league & make sure you’re in the moment. Don’t force yourself just do it when you feel like it’s the perfect time

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