Ttc journey problems

Anyone elses husband or significant other get irritated if you ask them to look at a test because you know u have line eyes? Mine does he also gets irritated at me when I tell him I'm ovulating or the most important days we should be bd'ing

Now I know it's not exactly the most romantic thing in the world and yeah sometimes it does seem more like work but when you've been trying for over a year I think he needs to know..i dont think it's fair having to deal with ttc alone because the woman is constantly thinking of it we have to deal with the timing, tracking, peeing on opks sometimes twice a day then analyzing them, fertility meds with horrible side effects, taking prenatals, having hsgs (those really hurt too) and trying to stay healthy so we can concieve its exhausting and after over a year of doing all that I dont think it's to much to ask him if he sees a line or letting him know what days are most important. he hears about this stuff like once a month where as us as woman think about it constantly then he gets mad if I actually say that! Idk what to do anymore do i keep mentioning it or no i thought we were on this ttc journey tg not just me alone😞