A lot of people seem to be confused with love and lust and I thought I’d break it down here for those who don’t or those who just need to see if they need to reevaluate their lives.

Love is person-centered👩🏼‍🤝‍👩🏾

Lust is pleasure-centered😫

Love doesn’t depend on physical appearance too much😊

Lust depends a lot on it🤢

Love is long-lasting🔋

Lust is momentary⚰️

Love builds 🧱⚒

Lust destroys🧨

Love gives🤲🏽💰💝

Lust takes🏃🏻💰💔

Love is patient and respectful 👵🏽🧓🏻

Lust is not which is why disappointment grows and leads to instant failure👩‍👧‍👦

Love produces joy🥳😆

Lust produces thrill😳👀

Theres making love🥰🥴

And

There’s creation of lust 🥵🤤

One is motivated by infatuation💗🤯

One is motivated by greed & selfishness 😈🥱

There’s strings attached💞🔐& There’s no strings attached🚫🔓

There’s I wanna make her/his body feel good the way she/he makes me feel😋😍 &

There’s I want her/him to make my body feel good even when I don’t care to do the same😈💦

There’s I DON’T think I can engage in sex with anyone else but her/him🥺👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏾 &

There’s I think I CAN engage in a threesome with her/him and her/his friend🤦🏾‍♀️💁🏻‍♂️🤦🏼‍♀️

There’s I see her/him as a beautiful soul very dear to me🤩🤞🏼🙌🏽 & There’s I see her/him as a beneficial object nothing more to me because she’s/he’s not the only pretty girl/ handsome boy in the world 🙎🏽‍♀️😏—>👯‍♀️

As you can see, lust and love are very very different from one another. We want that lustful desire in a loving long-term relationship too. However we don’t want JUST lust in our relationship well I’m hoping... unless lust by itself is what some of you are looking for. Beware

Evaluate your relationship right now. If you realize your relationship is a lust-founded partnership, then you better ponder on what could be its long-term effect on you. If you let it go on for a long time, it would be hard for you to let go (because of attachment) and find the right person to love.