I have no idea where else to share this and I can’t tell anyone I know about it 😂 please no judgement.

So I’m pretty adventurous during sex and always down for trying new things. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now (long distance sadly) and a while back we were with friends playing some weird drinking game. The question of “what’s something you’ve always wanted to try during sex but to scared/embarrassed” and basically he admitted he wanted his butt finger (is that the correct term? Lol).

A couple months go by and I bring it up and he says hell no im not letting u do that because it’s embarrassing. I explain to him I’m all about trying new things at least once especially if it brings more pleasure to the person, and I don’t judge!!

I guess he’s embarrassed because he has a hairy bum crack 😅😂 I reminded him that I’m a nurse and have seen a life time worth of hairy butts, nothing phases me.

Anyway, one day (last month) I went to visit him and we were really drunk and I was going down on him and I suggest the butt thing and he goes “fine” so I put a condom on my finger and stick my finger up there 😂 y’all this had to be the weirdest thing I’ve ever done but I had this man moaning! Also I’ve never stuck my finger in any buttholes before and it felt SO WEIRD!

After that night he said it was a one time thing even though he enjoyed it. He is so embarrassed even though I reassure him that it didn’t gross me out.

I think I’m going to suggest we both try butt plugs together to get him more comfortable because he did enjoy it.