So my boyfriend has fingered me a few times like a decent amount of times and I can still only handle one finger (I knowwww lame I know) and the first time he did it I bleed a good amount and I thought after that I would be fine but almost not every time but almost every time I have spotted afterwards. We have never had sex and like I said before we only do one finger we tried doing two but I couldn’t do that very well most of the time it feels good when he’s doing it to me but once he takes his finger out I feel sore and bleed a little. Is this normal? R we doing something wrong? Is there something wrong with me? (He has never said anything about my bleeding and pain he gets honestly really really sad because he just wants to make me happy and feels like he can’t but idk sometimes I feel like maybe we’re doing something wrong or something else) please help ladies!