have you ever been involved with someone who was in a relationship? (whether you knew or not)

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just curious 🤷🏼‍♀️

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The 18%, shame on you.

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I was in high school. Very insecure. Loved the attention and the secrecy. But ended in heart break. 
Id never do that again.

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I met a guy on Match.com and we dated for 3 months. He stayed over every Saturday and we’d go out to restaurants and such then we’d hang out most of Sunday.
Lauren used to call, and he said they were bffs which I thought nothing of because I have a guy best friend. He even put her in speaker phone a few times when we were in his truck.
Well our relationship fizzled out and I talked to him years later on tinder too but never hung out again. Well he’s married to Lauren now so I always wondered if they were together the whole time.

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A lot of times men lie, especially on online dating apps, they have a wife, they have kids, they have a girlfriend, and claim to be single or separated or things are “complicated” or not happy etc whatever other reason or excuse. Men are full of crap and tell you what you wanna hear to get what they want. I had a guy tell me he was separated and then I stalked his wife’s Facebook and sure enough they were celebrating their 10 year anniversary at an Eagles game, so obviously that ended. Whether they want their cake and to eat it too and have a wife or a girlfriend and a side chick or someone who they’re just lying to or are naïve or whatever else. Sadly there’s more crappy men than decent ones out there, some women take what they can get, loneliness and desperation make people do stupid things as well. A lot of women will settle for whatever they can get.￼ They get sucked in and it’s hard to walk away. It sucks to be a decent person who is loyal and honest, and you meet someone who you gave the benefit of the doubt and assume like you are also loyal and honest and you end up getting used or taken advantage of or lied to. It sucks to date in this day and age. Between scammers from Nigeria who catfish people, or other places in the world. It happens a lot. ￼￼I totally understand why people are desperate and will take whatever they can get. Attention and affection, are hard to find, especially consistently. I get how loneliness can make people do things out of the norm. I’m sorry I’m not someone who is quick to judge and call someone a homewrecker or whatever else.  Everyone has a story, everyone has reasons why, I don’t judge anyone. On the contrary I’d rather help people than judge them and make them feel bad about themselves. All I can offer is advice and is their decision if they want to take it or not. I look out for people and I have a heart to help people. And in this day and age of bullying and suicide, others shouldn’t be so quick to judge and make people feel worse.

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Yes, he was married. It lasted way over a year. 
I had no idea.

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Yes I didn’t even know, I also got pregnant with our daughter. She’s 10 now and he has only seen her 3 times in her entire life. Her half sister is only 6 months older than her. I was told he was single and didn’t have kids. When I told him I was pregnant he told me he ain’t gonna do anything about it. I asked him why not. He said that he was engaged with his fiancée who was 30 weeks pregnant with their daughter and they have a 2 years old son. He’s still very active in his other children’s lives, but not our daughter’s. He’s not with his other children’s mother anymore either.

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Not justifying.
Just sharing what happened.
They dated when they were super young.  Then were best friends for 15 years. 
Got pregnant while just a "fwb" situation.
Got married to make her parents happy. 
Were not meant to date let alone be married. 
They both were unfaithful. 
They both agreed very amicably to split.  
They immediately went back to being good friends and she and I got along great.

have you ever been involved with someone who was in a relationship? (whether you knew or not)

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