So all last week my husband has been getting calls from an older friend who would leave him voice mails saying she wanted him to call her back because she had a little question for him. She has plenty of family to care for her during our recent epidemic outbreak, so he thought it was a work related question and didnt worry. He didnt have time due to how busy he is right now with work, so he hadn't called her back yet, but she did eventually text him with her question on Saturday.

Now before I go any further I want to give a bit of a back story. About 4 years ago I had my first miscarriage and it broke me down and I could barely function. I was torn up for months. So this friend and another older friend had a cradle they had purchased between the two of them for one of their grand babies that they cared for, but they had outgrown it and no longer needed it. So they gave it to me to help lift my spirits and give me hope. One of them hoped I would have a baby to put in it soon.

Well, that brings me back to Saturday. The text from the one friend said that she wanted to ask my husband if he thought it would bother me if she borrowed the cradle for a couple few months. If it did then don't worry about it, but she was sorry it didnt work.

So my husband called her. She wanted to give it to her nephew who she told him had been trying for a baby for 15 years and after they finally gave up they got pregnant and had one.

She went on to ask if my husband and I could get government assistance for my "medical condition" since I can't work a full time job and struggle some days with my health, but I'm usually okay now a days. Then made other digs at our life style and lack of fertility.

My husband refused to give her the cradle.

I text a friend to see what they thought of the situation and they thought the whole thing was rude considering the older friends both know we have struggled for several years ourselves to try to get pregnant. They said it would have been one thing if we were having children and passing it back and forth between both families, but to wait 4 years after giving it to me while I'm still struggling with infertility was very rude.

What do you all think?