Post Break Up?

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Hi. So we broke up about a week ago. We’ve talked a few times. We have to meet up to discuss some things. I miss him terribly. He cheated and broke up with me over the guilt. He felt bad for what he did and wanted me to be blissfully ignorant. He wanted me to believe he didn’t love me anymore to keep from hurting me more. Yesterday I talked to him about meeting up to get my stuff from him and vice versa. During that time he told me he feels empty without me, he wished he could have woken up with me. He also told me he loved me but he wasn’t in love with me anymore. My gut tells me that our relationship isn’t over just yet, but I know I can’t be with him now. He lost all my trust. 
He also told me he feels empty without me. I know I feel the same way. What do I do? 
Did you know if it was really over when you broke up with your SO?
How do I get over this faster?

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Stop meeting up with him and talking to him. He sounds manipulative. Broke up with you over the guilt. Telling you he’s empty. But in the same breathe he isn’t in love with you anymore. Stop listening to your gut. Because It isn’t your gut. It’s his mix signals confusing you. Listen to what he’s actually saying. Walk away for good. Block him everywhere. You’ll be thankful in the long run.

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Key word “he cheated” why do u still need to talk and meet up?

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"He cheated on me and then pretended to not like me and broke up with me to not hurt my feelings"
That's a new one!!!
When you are naively in love you can believe anything as long as it gives you an excuse to get back to him. 
Your being manipulated. Run

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From the fact you’ve only responded to the comment that tells you to potentially go back to him, I fear that any advice against it you’ll just ignore which I find incredibly frustrating. Please listen to the advice you’re being given, even when it may not be what you want to hear. A lot of us speak from experience.  
I’ve had a similar scenario but minus the cheating, and you NEED to be the stronger person and walk away. People play games, and he’s doing it to you. If he honestly really wanted you back, he would be actively trying to win you back, not risk it and push you away.
Please go and rebuild yourself, so in 6 months time he’ll look back and regret it!
Also guys don’t respect you if you keep running back, give yourself some dignity and walk away head held high and one day when you’re ready, you’ll hopefully meet someone that would never dream of hurting or messing you about like this guy has.
Good luck!

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Yes, my bf and I also broke up a few weeks ago and I believe he was cheating, he took 2 hours to call back. He said he was in the bathroom and became defensive when I asked if he was telling the truth and broke up with me. I don’t believe it’s completely over though they say guys usually come back.

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I can say don't go back because I would be a hypocrite. If you want to try again go for it. Trusting will take time but I am not sure why he would say he isn't in love with you.. that's the part that doesn't make sense to me. Have you asked him why he said that..?

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I'm sorry you have to go through this. Please don't look more into what he said.  He cheated and told you he isn't in love with you. The relationship as significant others should be over. If you choose to pursue a friendship with him that is your choice. Just be cautious and know your limits. If you take him back now... It may only lead to him continually cheating. Unless he can prove, through time, it truly was just a mistake.
 You deserve someone who knows your worth from the start.

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