I don't even know how to begin this but my boyfriend likes to slap me across the face when we have sex or sometimes even if he's really happy with something I've done or if we have a passionate kiss. Like for example we will be making out and he'll pull away and lightly slap me, then kiss me again and tell me to stop being a bad girl.

I love it so, so much. If we're having sex and he hits me I have to struggle to NOT orgasm and then he will usually always follow up with a kiss and then he'll tell me how much he loves me and hold me for a bit. He does not strike me out of anger, rage or frustration, ever.

Obviously it's a bit of a struggle to find someone to talk to about all this. I've been watching BDSM videos by Evie Lupine and I know my bf is a dom, his other favorite things are choking me and tying me up in bed (I enjoy and ask for him to do these things) but obviously I can't talk to just anyone about this. Does anyone else really like when their bf slaps them around in bed?