Found this on my *soon to be ex* husband's phone. UPDATE. Last Edit. Just kidding... Another EDIT

I'm shaking and I feel like vomiting.

This was from a weekend that I was out of town.

I don't know these people. I looked them up on Facebook. One of the girls is 19. My husband is 34.

My husband is in blue. His buddy who I know nothing about is in white.

He did message Hannah. She messaged back.

This is the worst one:

I'm fucking disgusted. I don't know this side of my husband.

What the fuck.

He is at work right now. I want to fucking send these and run. I'm so disgusted. There are sooo many more... This man is pure garbage.

I think I'm going to have a panic attack.

UPDATE:***************

So it's been an interesting ride...

I have 117 photos of massively inappropriate messages.

Along with the ones I posted, I picked a few more particularly vile ones and sent them to three of the women. The two here and the woman who lives in the house they have all been hanging out in. Apparently it's been going on for months. They all knew about me and my now 8 month old son. They told me all the horrible things he has said about me. Every single one is untrue. All told to justify his actions to himself. It definitely hurts. 7 years wasted. I thought we had each other's backs. Im fucking sickened by seeing him for who he really is.

After the women (very young women) saw the way they were talked about, they saw the situation for what it was. They were very apologetic. I obviously still feel some sort of way about them. But at least they see the truth and are able to protect themselves now.

He slept with those three. Together, seperatly, I honestly don't want to think any deeper about all that... Him and his buddy slept with those two women in our bed the night of these messages. He was also reaching out to many other woman making attempts. There are even messages from a few of their husbands and boyfriend's going off on him. He looks so pathetic.

Next I sent them to my husbands father.

I also messaged his buddy and simply said "You're garbage. And you're made for each other. He is your problem now".

I packed up my son and I left to a hotel.

Then I sent them to my husband. Along with the screen shots of my conversation with the three women.

This is insane. I don't know this man, never did, never want to. All those nights "working late". Leaving his son and I alone all the time. He was there.

To court we go.

Another shitty thing, my OBGYN office is closed so I can't go there for an STD check.

Now I get to sit in this hotel room wondering how I let this happen to myself and can't even take my son to the park, or on a walk to distract myself.

I'm talking any an all advice. Thank you all so much, ladies ❤️

Fuck.

EDIT:****************

To the woman who asked about if he left his phone at home... I found a phone I didn't know about in his sock drawer while doing laundry. When I turned it on it immediately connected to the wifi and a lot of messages starting coming through. I wasn't going to not open them considering what I was able to see. He is a fucking idiot. Had a whole ass secret life while I struggled as a new mother. Alone.

**EDIT: *****************

To Skye:

I'm sorry that you think I'm an "Absolute IDIOT" for leaving.

He slept with teenagers all over my house and in my bed. I DO NOT want anything to do with that house. Don't want to ever step foot in it again. Don't even want anything out of it.I'm all set. Time to start new in all things... Nor am I petty enough to go spend his money on new shit. He can lead whatever life he wants. I want no part of it. Sorry if my actions offended you.

EDIT***********

To those of you wondering his reaction, I am as well. I blocked him immediately after sending what I sent. I don't have social media other than this app and Facebook. Which I signed out of. So he truly has no way to get ahold of me. I understand I have his son and I will unblock him in a few days. Maybe a week. I just need a moment.

I haven't told anyone yet. Obviously his father knows but I haven't reached out to any friends. I'm quite sure they all know seeing as I'm getting a lot of messages. Left unopened and unanswered. Who knows what he has told everyone.

It's massively embarrassing and I just want to thank you ladies. You have no idea how amazing it is to have this community. I really wish I had strong women like you in my daily life.

I wish you nothing but happiness in everything you do ❤️

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