Quarantine guilt tripping

My in laws will not stop guilt tripping us about quarantining. They keep making us feel bad that we’re not letting them see the baby. We are on week 2 of shelter in place order where we live and we have not been in contact with anyone outside of our household.

They on the other hand all still go out and about and see other members of their extended family regularly.

I’m also pregnant again so I don’t want to risk our health. They don’t know this yet but I feel like they should still respect our decision to protect our family even if I wasn’t pregnant.

Why do they have to keep being so mean about it? Should we just tell them that I’m pregnant so they stop? It makes me so upset. 😫😢