My son is nearly 4 months and ever since we came home from the hospital my husband has done NOTHING to help. He will very reluctantly get my son if he’s crying while I’m in the shower and even then he goes to the bathroom to tell me to hurry because the baby is crying. I’m so sick of it 😭 we live in Hawaii and I have no support system here. Obviously I can’t fly back right now with the whole covid19. I miss my family and I miss the help I would be getting from them. Idk what to do. I’ve talked to my husband about it a couple times before but nothing has changed. Am I dumb for staying with him? Im a stay at home mom and take care of his two dogs who are VERY needy. I’m tired and I really don’t want this to start affecting my baby. I don’t cook because he loves to but then he gets mad that he does it all everyday (even tho I do all the housework, take the dogs for a walk, make sure the baby’s needs are met and he’s not crying)