New and trying to figure this all out

Hello! My name is Meghan and I’m 35yo. My husband and I recently started trying. I’ve been off bc for almost a year. I just started my period yesterday I thought this last cycle may have been it but Sadly it did not happen. I M looking for someone close to my cycle that can help my navigate all this to help calm my over active brain and concern over my age and time. Thank you ladies! I look forward to chatting with someone! Oh and before this app. I was just using a calendar and try to keep track through that. I’m ready to start getting serious and really trying to narrow down the best chance and day. Not sure if my cycle length yet. I am not always regular.