Very hurt right now

I told my new bf that i wasn’t feeling very supported. We are gonna talk on the phone a bit later. But before i bring this up to him, I want an opinion on if you would be hurt by this too.

I have anxiety and i’ve been coming to him sometimes asking for support or help. He’ll tell me that everything will be okay and that sometimes he doesn’t know what to say to me to make me feel better. A few weeks ago, his ex (they had a super long relationship) came to him bc her anxiety was bad and he wrote PARAGRAPHSSAS of help and advice. (He showed me the texts)

This hurts me extremely badly. Especially if he’s telling me that he loves me. Would it hurt you as well?