12dpo

I'm 12dpo and I have literally almost no symptoms of af. I usually experience moodiness bloating and wanting to eat everything or not hunger at all and very sore boobs and cramps at least 1 week prior and during af. The only symptoms I have and have had for over a week and I feel full constantly but yet I wanna eat. I'm bloated which after 1 week of being bloated it went away but I still look bloated and still kinda feel it. I took a pt at 10 dpo and it was a bfn. I'm afraid I'm jixing myself...I try not to obsess but its soo hard. I read on the internet that some ladies dont get their bfp until 14 dpo which I guess is more the "norm" other dont get it til 16 dpo. Who else got their bfp at 14 or 16?