What would you do?

Jessica • Married 💏 2014 — 🧒🏻 2000 — 👱🏻‍♀️ 2004 — 👱🏻‍♀️ 2009 — 👼🏻 + 👼🏻 2018 — 🌈 🤰🏻due 12/6/20 — 41yo and 50yo DH

My Ob-Gyn scheduled me for my first appt, on May 20, at 11 weeks and 2 days. I feel like I’m high risk at over 40 and a history of miscarriage, one at 5 weeks in March 2018 and one at 15 in Dec 2018. When I first called they said after checking my levels they’d have come in for a “quick” ultrasound, then a couple days later they called me to schedule for 11 weeks, saying that’s “normal”. But I don’t think I’m the “normal” patient. I have a feeling I’m falling through the cracks, my OBGyn didn’t really respond to my email reminding him of my age and history. I guess I should call and remind them, once again, of my history, just not used to having to advocate so hard for myself. Or maybe I’m being extra, and I should suck it up knowing there isn’t anything they could do if there was something wrong, anyway. Would you wait it out for 11 weeks not knowing anything at all?

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