I need some advice ladies 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ before I had my daughter I was adamant that she was not going to sleep in bed with me and my bf well fast forward when we got home from the hospital I got bad postpartum anxiety and depression and I just felt like I could feel of hear her breathing so I let her sleep in the bed and I know her doctor told me it’s not good to have her sleep in bed with us because of possibly rolling over but long story short we have had a rough first month and the first two weeks were the hardest I ended up leaving to my aunts for 2 weeks and the guilt of me being so sad and a mess and my mind being so distracted with fighting with her dad that I felt like I didn’t really enjoy her first month like I wanted too so I would cuddle up with her at night in bed just me and her well now things have calmed down we are all loving together again and things have been great however that guilt still gets to me and I allow her to sleep in the bed still part of it is my selfish wants to however I want to have that intimate time with my bf (not necessarily sex just cuddling and just sleeping alone together ) as well so I’ve tried rocking her and getting her to sleep and then putting her down in her own bed it worked for two days but now every time we have tried after that she instantly wakes up and looses her mind so she’s back in the bed with us 😭😭😭 I need some tips on how to get her to sleep in her own bed I feel like I started a not so good habit and she’s now use to it and I hate letting her cry which everyone tells me to let her cry a little bit but my first instinct is to run to my baby and so I do does anyone else do the same or what are some ways to break this habit