Need help with setting!!

Hi, I need help with changing my status in my settings to pregnant or something. I am getting an abortion soon and would like to be apart of a group and not get kicked out for being accused of falsely having an abortion. I would like the support in the group and be able to post my thoughts and story as well as others. I went to the support website and it said to go to setting and change your status. I have looked everywhere and am having trouble finding how to change it.