Happy to be divorced today

We just got divorced last month and I think Anger Ass is finally realizing I'm not worried about what he thinks anymore.

He's currently pitching a fit in the kitchen because I haven't kept up on the dishes this week.

He's yelled at me that it's disgusting and he's sick of it several times and guess what? I don't care.

The house isn't disgusting, the kitchen is. You know what else isn't disgusting? The fact that I work, spend my evenings and weekends at home with OUR baby girl and in my free time still maintain a clean home.

The kitchen is a mess created by both of us. More him than me, I might add.

I still fold his laundry for him but he's angry about the kitchen (a shared space) being a mess. And it's all my fault when any spare time he has that he isn't doing school he is on the phone with his girlfriend or playing on his phone. He could clean while he chats. 🤷‍♀️

I think being quarantined is making him crazy because he's used to going out while I stayed home but now I'm the only one going out (work and grocery shopping).

It's not like he'll ever acknowledge how much I do, and he had to yell and rant about me being disgusting to get it done but this was the first time in a long time I've seen him do the dishes like that. He still left some for me to take care of though (even after yelling at me that I don't know what "clean" means and that means absolutely everything is done. 🙄 no, really? Then how come for the last 4 years you tell me you clean all the time when you straighten up the living room maybe once a week ((that's probably generous)), but you didn't dust or vacuum?)

I haven't been mean or vindictive through this divorce, but I think because I've stopped trying to please him and I'm not getting angry or not really having much reaction to him anymore I think it bothers him. He doesn't know what to do with it.

Like yesterday he did something that he very obviously expected would upset me but I didn't care and he tried pushing that I might be upset for a little while.

I just wish he'd realize how much I really did for him when we were together because he's pretty oblivious and obviously ungrateful.