Confident sex !...????

Question

Me and my boyfriend have good sex but most of the time he’s doing most of the work . Being plus sized , sometimes i feel insecure about my body , i want to try new positions but the though of jiggling everywhere turns me off from the idea lol can anyone relate ?!

Answer

Corsets suck you in and lift everything up. Try modified positions like reverse cowgirl but standing at the edge of the bed with your back to him and have him scooch down underneath you. Less leg pain, knee pain and he can get you underneath too. Try pillows under your knees to get more height and less pain for you. Spooning make sure you arch your back to bring your hooha closer to him for easier access. Same thing if you do doggystyle arch your back. Bent over something like the arm of the couch no pressure on your back etc and if ya gotta do cowgirl try it with the couch you can use the back and side arm to help with balance and reverse standing works too or try standing and facing forward takes some getting used to. Zero balance and shower sex is an accident waiting to happen so I would not go there. Good luck.

Answer

I totally relate ! What has helped me is lingerie! Specifically tops (I like kind of Flowy ones because they still allow for access but hide my tummy sorry if that’s TMI.

Confident sex !...????

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