Hi! Looking for some words of encouragement. 😔 I’m sorry if this has been posted so many times before:

I’m 21w3d and I haven’t really felt kicks. My last appointment was two weeks ago. Sometimes I think I am, but I’m just not sure! Feels like internal gas bubbles, sometimes feels like little spasms, popping? I don’t know. Maybe at night. It’s usually depending on how I sit or lay which is why I don’t think it’s it.

This is my first pregnancy to make it this far. I’m always so scared because of my loss history.

I have a posterior placenta, which makes this even more anxiety provoking! I know with anterior you can’t feel at first, but that is not my case.

I’m short and carry a lot of weight around my midsection. I’m wondering if I just can’t feel the kicks yet because I’m too fat/fabulous?

I really hope that’s the case, since I don’t think 21w is too early to feel them...😩