So my fiancé and I have been together for 2 going on 3 years and we have a 5 month old together. I love him to death but I couldn’t help but think that he’s hiding something from me because he never leaves his phone in the room. Always has it face down, doesn’t like when I use his phone to look something up if my phone is dead and takes any and all calls outside. So today I was on his Snapchat while he was sleeping to find a photo from previously when I see a huge amount of women who he has talked to previously. I’ve caught him once before messaging some girl telling her how beautiful and attractive she is having late night phone calls FaceTiming when I was at work so on and so on and he said he would never do it again. But now he’s messaging other women saying they have a nice butt, to message him, how hot they are, or that they “need to stop playing games”. At this point I’m over trying to get him to be attracted to me. Like I get that my body isn’t what it used to be but shouldn’t he be more in love with me since he saw what I went through? We argue all the time now since I’m no longer in school or working he’s upset that I don’t look for another job and I keep having to remind him that we are trying to save money by me staying home and watching our son but that never seems good enough for him. I just want to know is it cheating or... am I just paranoid.

And before anyone says anything about I shouldn’t be going through his phone it wasn’t intentional I was looking for a photo he has on his phone.

Also. Sorry for the rant but idk where to talk about it