Just a curious question. My boyfriend had done some stuff I considered emotional cheating but he didn’t even consider emotional cheating to be a thing, at least not the way I did.

Anyway we’re getting past that and I told him that emotional cheating can lead to physical cheating and if that happen i wouldn’t give it a second thought and I’d leave him. And eventually idk how we got to this topic (it was a longgg night) I asked him what advice he’d give a friend who was cheated on. And he said if his friend really really loved his gf (like he said he loves me) and she was really sorry, regretted it and was willing to change he would tell his friend to take her back and continue working on their relationship.

Idk if he was saying this because he was scared to lose me but he has said stuff like this before.

I don’t understand. I’m just posting bc I’m curious has anyone felt/thought like he does bc I don’t get it and honestly it makes me uncomfortable bc if I cheated (I would never) or if my friend cheated on her bf I would not thing either of us deserve the relationship.