So I recently started seeing someone and we had sex and he wanted to do it without the condom but I said no way cause I always thought that’d be super dumb. Then he took FOREVER to cum (like not in a good way) and he said he just doesn’t like wearing a condom which could be why. Would it be totally dumb of me to have sex without a condom? I’m not on birth control but my sister I know never uses one and she’s always fine... so is it that big of a deal to use one every time? And if so, how can I help him not to take so long???