My mom..
I just have a question if anyone else has had this problem. It started when I was younger when I was never allowed to wear bathing suits in front of my dad. Which I understand that my mom wouldn’t let me. But today, I was trying to lighten my hair with Sun-In and my mom told me “Wow. You’re going to be a blonde, I bet that’s gonna make your dad happy”. My mom has something against blondes and thinks my dad is obsessed with them. She was basically sexualizing me, and it makes me really uncomfortable. He’s my dad.... ? Is that weird or normal?
*Just wanted to say that these comments or issues have been present since like 5th grade (of what i remember. I’m in 11th). It’s not just comments about me but also about my sister’s best friend. She wasn’t allowed to have a picture of her best friend because she was blonde. It’s just a constant fear that when i’m with my dad, he’s going to try to flirt with a blonde.. Idk tho might just be a personal issue for me
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