Well me and my spouse been together for 5 years. We've been trying to conceive for 4 years and just for me to keep having misscarrages. So me and his cousin had an talk and now I'm pregnant by his cousin. He was willing to help me and he knows my fiance can't know and hes fine with that. My fiance is 57 and I'm 31. I'm confused on how to feel. But I'm happy we're all happy. His cousin will be at the birthing and will come around to see the baby grow. But it's still a secret. How far will you go to finally conceive???