please help ...

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how can i stop comparing myself to my boyfriends exs ? theres few times i do but it kills me so much when i do. so most of the time, im fine and dont worry about it but in tired of doing it in general. anyone have any advice ?

i struggle with self confidence and all, but ive been getting better with it but i still have my weak moments and i just want help on how to cope with them and get them gone :/