Was asked to be a bridesmaid with a 2 month old newborn

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I’m due July 26th with my first baby. My brothers fiancé asked for me to be a bridesmaid for their wedding that is 14 hours up north in October. By then our baby will be 2 months old. My brother also asked my husband to be a groomsman too, so it’s both of us in the wedding. I’m just nervous for all this. The feedings, the leaking breasts, the shape of whatever my body will be by then, the lack of sleep...all of it. It stresses me out right now more than giving birth in a few months because of this obligation.

Someone help! 🤦🏻‍♀️ I just need to hear from others.

UPDATE: so my husband and I were talking and thought what if we left her with his parents (who will be 3 hours away from the wedding venue) for the day? I still don’t know if that’s doable with breastfeeding that young and all. Any moms have thoughts on that? My only thing is that because we will be in a different state and different environment and leaving her with my husbands parents which she will probably be meeting for the first time... I just don’t know how that will go. And this is a big trip for things to just all go wrong if you know what I mean...