Last week we were trying to come up with both a boy and girl name for our baby. Im 16 weeks and we just found out today what the gender is... we finally decided on a name for a boy and a name for a girl. I told everyone to keep it a secret. It was a group chat - Me, husband, my mom, his mom, and his sister. I go live on Facebook today to reveal the gender. It’s a girl! Then in the comments his mom reveals the name.... I didn’t see it until hours later and now Im pretty upset that she announced it and it’s out there already.... I just feel like it wasn’t her place to announce it especially since I told her it was a secret... his mom has never really liked me for no reason so idk I just feel like she did it out of spite... maybe Im over reacting but tbh I wasn’t ready to announce the name and if I was, I wish it could’ve been me or my husband... idk

UPDATE:

Im almost positive she did it out of spite because we had an argument the day prior about the time I was going live.. 6:30-7pm.. she apparently was suppose to work 6pm-6am. And was very upset with me because I didn’t consult with her first about the time I’d be going live to reveal the gender.. she said she’s off the following two days and i said i wanted to do it the day i had my appointment because I’m just so excited to know the gender and she replies “but yea your excitement overruled all of that.” Like bitch stfu. Of course Im excited and I could do the reveal when I want and how I want. I don’t have to consult with anyone especially since it was just a live video not an actual party... so I think she shared the name because she was mad at me for not switching the day of the reveal.. she just loves drama.

His whole family does. They’ll stir anything up and if we call them out of even nicely say how it hurt us then she’ll blow it out of proportion and make us look like shit somehow. My husband is so beyond over his family. He basically said he just wants to block them all because he’s just so annoyed. It’s one thing after the other and he’s tried to talk to them so many times but no use... it just makes things worse when we try to confront her or his family.