My other half has genital warts, they have recurred despite the nurse saying 'they will be gone now' after freezing them off a few months ago 🙄

We don't have unprotected penetrative sex, and at the moment they are coverable with a condom. So we can still have sex - except we haven't because he really isn't in the mood for it. We do more oral usually, which we don't use a condom for, but obviously I haven't done that for him in over a month. Everything I've read says it's rare to contract it orally, and I don't even know if I can be tested without warts even being present. But what if I am carrying it in my mouth and he gets these ones treated and then I just pass it straight back to him and then recur? Is this really gonna be how it is for our entire relationship??

He's been trying to get treatment (following me nagging him) to get them frozen again but hes contacted upwards of 6 clinics, his GP, and even called 111 but nobody can/will do anything with the current Covid situation. He's had mixed messages from 'call us back if it restricts urine flow or becomes painful' to 'it won't get any worse, they might just get bigger'. Why the fuck should he have to wait until it potentially causes him pain? He's already uncomfortable and he doesn't really want to talk about it with me as we are 'going round in circles'. I mentioned he should tell his ex partners but I'm pretty sure he hasn't and I can't keep nagging him.

So I don't feel like I can talk to him properly about it. So just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience. Thanks in advance ladies x