I'm seriously wondering if my boyfriend loves me... He's a really calm person... Kinda... Too calm. I posted a picture of me in a bikini I was planning to wear when we were going to Hawaii (that's cancelled now). A bunch of guys hearted it. He didn't even seem bothered.... He said "What should I care. Not like they're dating you". I think a lot little bit of jealousy is good for a relationship. It shows you care. A guy could be flirting with me and he will just take my hand and walk away and not say anything to the guy. He's very unconfrontational. He doesn't ask where I go when I leave. He just says. Have fun... I don't understand why he's so calm. I'm not saying I want him to yell at me... But like give me something. I tried a small social experiment. A may get judged for this though... We were at the store and I started flirting with someone. I wanted to know his reaction. He didn't say anything until we got in the car. He said he felt a little disrespected. Again very calm. God why does this drive me crazy. I asked why. He doesn't freak when other guys flirt with me and he said because I trust you. I guess that makes sense. I just wish he would give me something. A little jealousy to show he cares