So I decided when me and the husband choose a baby name I'm not telling anyone I know mainly my family. There has been so many names I loved and told my mom, nana or friends and they ended up hating it or made fun of it so then it made me reconsider using it because of there rude comments. I had a beautiful girls name picked out for my first son and my mom and mil hated it. So far we have a boys name but we still dont have a girls name. I decided I'm not going to tell anyone until the day of the baby shower. And when they ask what we are naming her or him I will simply tell them they wont find out until our baby shower when I display our childs name as party decor and if they dont like it they can keep there rude comments to themselves because they already had there chance to name there own child and I dont need opinions anymore.