This is going to be long winded, but I have no one else to talk to.

My husband and I recently moved to another state to "start over". We weren't really in a bad situation or anything, it was just the cost of living, and a different atmosphere. When we 1st got here, it took him a month to find a job. (For reference we moved here in October so the beginning of winter) He did construction and I worked in healthcare before we moved. Once he found a job he was laid off about 3 weeks after he started because of the weather. I ran out and got a job around Thanksgiving. (Mind you I stayed at home with our daughter during the 3 weeks he worked.)

Now, here it is getting ready to be May and he still hasnt got a job. It's really putting a strain on me because where I work pays just above minimum wage and I have been somehow keeping us afloat.

Here is where I need some advice...that was kind of the backstory.

He will sit and borrow money from his sister. Whether its 20 or 40 dollars and she expects me to pay it back. I have in the past, but I'm getting really pissed off about it because I can barely make my bills, let alone pay back a debt I never made. I don't see any of the money, but I have to pay it back. He will buy cigarettes or bullets...basically shit that doesnt matter.

Well for the past 2 weeks (I actually made a post about this on here) we had her son here. Hes 16 and he ate quite a bit. Being that I'm literally pinching every penny to make sure we have enough, we ran out of food because I wasn't going to not feed him. She threw a fit for me telling her if he was staying he needed some money for at least a loaf of bread and a pack of bologna. It's not like I asked her to pay my bills. I had to stop at a school Tuesday for a food hand out to even feed my daughter until tomorrow. (when I get paid). She though told my husband that she would come by Wednesday with some food (like ramen noodles) to get us by until Friday....and like I suspected she never showed up.

I haven't had a damn thing to eat since Wednesday aside from some chicken broth. My daughter has had food. His

Sister just texted my husband asking what we were doing. She asked if my daughter wanted McDonalds because my husband did go off on her for not keeping her end of the deal with bringing something to eat. Husband told her yeah and her stipulation was if she gave money for that a 4 dollar happy meal, that she wanted 60 dollars back. (He borrowed 40) I just cant.. and when I said I wasn't paying his debts, he got pissed and left and said I was paying it. She gave him a 4 wheeler and I guess she said if it's not paid, she's taking it back. Like excuse me??? He said if she takes it, I wont like what happens next. Wtf is that supposed to mean. Ugh. They both just piss me off.