are you kidding me?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

So my brother, who's a grown ass man, and constantly babied by my mother, decided to spend his income tax money on stupid shit instead of fixing his car. Now somehow whenever he needs a ride to work or home it's my obligation and I can't say no. Right now with all of this virus shit going on I'm very anxious and paranoid about bringing it in my home. I have two young kids. My fiance isn't working and neither am I and that makes me feel better knowing both of us staying home is lessening our risk. My brother is an essential worker at Walmart, which is incredibly busy and very risky. He can easily catch it and pass it on to me or my fiance when we're giving him a ride. His girlfriend is also constantly at her sister's house and her sister is constantly going over to other people's houses. He's not only in contact with multiple people at work but at risk at home as well. I explained that I wouldn't be able to take him or pick him because of this reason and my mother called me scolding me about why I won't drive him. I told her I won't even order take out right now because of my fear of catching it. I'm just trying to keep my family safe and healthy and somehow it's my problem someone can't get to work. He's still bragging about spending his money on stupid crap but yet needs rides to work because he hasn't fixed his car and yet that's somehow my problem. It's so ridiculously stupid