Hi there..

Ok my question is probably ridiculous...

But I'm a bit at a loss.. So please no hard judgement.. I'm just trying to keep the kids' feelings in mind...

So I've washed the kid's sheets..

Now we had some ill fitting sheets and my husband had some extra income so we ordered new sheets for 1 bed since we had well fitting sheets for 2/3 beds.

The kids don't know yet.

So at this moment we have clean sheets on the eldest's bed and on the youngest's bed..

The middle one has a fitted sheet too but he wets his bed quite often so it's a plastic one and I usually put a cotton one over it.

So I'm wondering if it would be mean to deliberately not give him the new sheet...

Again.. The kids don't know yet and they would have no clue if I took the eldest's sheet and put it on the middle one's bed.. I switch them from time to time anyways. But I do feel a bit uneasy because it feels like I'm deliberately not giving him something he could be having..

Though I don't think it's not a bad reason to not give him the brand new sheets because he wets his bed.. (It's not like I won't give him clean sheets.. Just not the brand new ones)

I'm probably worried for nothing.. But I feel like he might get jealous because his brother got something new and he didn't, because he is a bit like that.. Like he needs exactly thesame or he'll throw a fit... But when he gets something his brother(s) don't he'll be like pushing it in their face all the time...

On the other hand.. They're just damn sheets to sleep in... 🙄

Update:

I'm not so sure about kids not caring..

This kid cried from happiness when I got him a new pillow...