Last night I went to meet with some of my friend and we started talking about the baby. It’s a long list of things I had a problem with but I’ll just share two. This list is just some of the things. Like are we being to extra first time parents?

1. I said I did not want her to have other food until she’s about 6 months I only want to breast feed.

Response: “OMG that baby is going to fucking starve.” “ Well when I have her I’m letting her eat other shit” “ Man I have two kids and there grown now obviously I know wtf I’m talking about”

2. I said well I want my mom to stay with me and my boyfriend for the first couple of weeks since this is our first child.

Response : “ You don’t need her over there” “ It’s trial and error man you get use to it” “Well I’m not coming over if she’s there all the time”

3. I said we don’t want everyone over at one time or everyday to see the baby. I need time to heal and we need time to bond and learn with our baby. “ Well I’m going to be there” “ I’m going to be there too” “ So y’all are going to deprive us of seeing the baby”