So I started having casual sex recently and this one guy that I had sex with likes getting rim jobs, but he’s really self conscious about it. I personally am totally fine exploring with him, but I don’t want to have sex with him anymore because his penis is so big that penetration hurts.

However, because he’s scared of getting kink shamed by other girls and knows that he can trust me, he really wants to have sex again. And I still want someone to explore with, but I don’t want it to feel bad for me.

Is there a way that I can “train” my vagina to be able to take bigger penises?