Venting

I’ve been getting really hormonal and sensitive lately especially bc when I ask my husband to help with things around the house he always says ok, or that he will later but later never comes. I asked him to do the dishes yesterday and he said he would bc there were literary like 5 things to wash and then just left it until it was evening and he fell asleep. I ended up going and doing myself. Today I asked him to unload the dishwasher he said ok then I asked again before we went to bed and he said he’ll do it tomorrow it’s not that important right now. Why is it that everything I ask him is not that important !!!! And when I bring this up he just says I’m complaining which pisses me off even more. I know men don’t care about these things and we are built different but it would help me feel so much more at ease and happy if he just did what I ask him in the moment that I ask vs “later” it’s so frustrating to feel like I’m the only person who cares about the cleanliness or this house and kitchen. He does help sometimes but it’s always on his time and lately I’ve been getting so impatient with him and so annoying I just wanna cry but I stay strong blaming it on my hormones.