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No heartbeat at 9 weeks

Ba

Bahamame

I'm feeling so down, cannot stop crying. Went to the doctor today, he did a transvaginal ultrasound but no heartbeat and after he took the measurement he told me must likely the baby stop growing at 7 weeks. He want me to schedule a D&C next Tuesday. I don't even want to get out of bed and I only have 1 embryo left. Oh God why my😪

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Ch

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So sorry for your loss💜💜💜

Ki

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I’m so sorry for your loss

Vi

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I am so sorry for your loss. I had a blighted ovum, found out in my US. Was supposed to be 8 weeks and there was no baby, no heart beat just an empty sac. I’m considering quitting now. I have a 5 yr old girl and she needs me, my husband and I just decided to live and be happy with just one child. Good luck to you

Sh

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I’m so sorry! Same thing happened to me at a 9 week checkup and the it measured 7 weeks 6 days. Took me awhile to be hopefully and positive but time heels all! Recover at your own pace and don’t feel ashamed for how or when you feel! You are not alone! Wish you the best!

Ti

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So sorry for your loss

Le

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Sorry to hear. Sending some love and light for you my dear.

Zu

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Sending you a virtual Hug ❤ I'm so sorry.

C

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I'm so sorry for your loss

Ga

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I am so sorry, I know it hurts- I was asking why me too last year, but time does heal. Take time to grieve and cry- it took me a year and yes I didn't want to get up and I cried at work and at home and at reastaurants.... perhaps it all makes us better moms eventually. Best of luck with the last embryo.

Ja

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Oh honey I am soooo sorry. Please take time for you. Its OK to randomly cry in public, it's OK to be DEEPLY sad, its OK to keep dh feelings in the loop, and most importantly... when you both are ready.. it is ok to embrace that next embryo as the sticky bean.Sending love your way.
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