So ladies-

I took some of y'all's advice and tried masturbating in the shower (detachable head) and just under the faucet. It honestly didn't do much for me but I got there eventually. The problem is, my lady but have been feeling really raw and hot since I showered and my underwear rubbing up against it is super uncomfy. I'm getting a lot more discharge, but things are still a bit inflamed and hot. Did I do something hung wrong? Cause I know water can mess up your lady's ph balance. Tips or thoughts??

Edit: it's been like, a day since and she's still really uncomfy and warm