Is porn okay?

I am forever seeing posts about whether porn is okay in a relationship, I don’t understand why people get offended and upset.

I’ve always watched porn personally. I love it, you learn new things, relax, feel good. What’s bad?

I’ve especially found nearing the end of my pregnancy I’m watching more porn. I just can’t be bothered with the ‘sex’ I wanna relax and feel good but I can’t be arsed with the whole shebang.

I’m 100% aware my partner watches porn, I don’t have any insecurity, I’m pregnant.. he can’t fuck me like he did before I was pregnant so why not porn?

Even before pregnancy, you just need ‘you’ time sometimes, bit of fun on your own just to satisfy your own needs and not worry about anyone else. I don’t understand what’s so hard to grasp about that?