Good morning texts

Hey guys just need to rant.

I had a talk with my boyfriend about the fact he doesn’t text “good morning” to me. Ik sooo stupid. For me its nice to feel thought of in the morning and I just enjoy waking up getting that text-but he doesn’t ever text me in the morning first and when I do send good morning he’ll respond with the waving emoji. He says he just doesn’t feel the need to because he’s comfortable enough with me just to say hi or hey. I get super excited when I wake up just to text him and let him know “hey I’m here thinking about you” but not everyone’s like that.

I also have been annoyed because I feel like I blow him off more than anything and he’s only gone down on me once for like 20 seconds. It’s not fair but he does finger me a good amount so it’s something. He says he’s just not ready. We’ve had our fair share of arguments and I do think it’s affecting our relationship but why should I continue doing something when I can’t receive it in turn? I don’t know