Self conscious since labour 😅

Hi,

So since my labour I have been arguing with my partner quite a lot. He has done some stupid things (like he was getting nudes from only fans 🙄) but now I’m going overboard with it all and I can’t seem to get out of my head that he has had a baby with me so now he done with me and looking at other girls (in a sexual way) Every little thing relating to another girl is setting me off. I had a traumatic birth and haven’t felt the same way about my confidence since. I don’t want to keep feeling like this because I was always so chilled. I don’t know if other mums are in the same sort of situation or feel somewhat similar. Please help me!! Or let me know if I can inbox you to get advice. 😅🤦🏼‍♀️💖