i have been thinking about this for a while and even as a gay women i don’t know what my answer is.

if you were in a relationship with another woman who later came out as a transgender male, what would you do? because you know your sexuality is love for women only but then the woman you love is now a man. you still love them as you grew to love them before the transition. would you stay with them? and would you then identify as bisexual? continuing to be with them but continuing to identify as gay would be denying them of their gender identity.

i’m just not sure what i would do, so i was just wanting the opinions of other gay women, thanks !