Suspicious?

The other day I was looking for a contact in my name's phone and I came across something weird.(also before I get told I shouldn't be in his phone, he knew I was doing it because I asked first)

I noticed two new contacts by the names of Zach and Marco. I thought this was weird because we don't have any friends with those names and we work together do I would know if it was a new coworker. In fact, the only people we know with those names that I can think of is an old co-worker that we both couldn't stand because he was rude to customers constantly and his little sisters old class mate. Both weird people to have as a contact so I screenshot it and sent it to myself.

I decided not to do anything else with it though because I trust him and let it be. After a couple days, it was driving me insane so I look the numbers up and one is for a Jasmine that lives about 30 minutes away. The second one is a person named Kimberly that lives about an hour away. The thing is, is that she's 59 according to the find someone profile and we're in our 20s so it seems weird that he would cheat on me with someone that much older?

I honestly just don't know what to think. I tried to casually bring it up and got no answers. Do you think he's cheating? I will bring it up if other people think it's weird but I don't want to upset him and I've never had trouble trusting him before so I don't want to cause problems if I'm just being crazy 😅

Thank you in advance for your advice! I really appreciate it😊

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Mr

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The fact that he has phone numbers saved under different names in his phone is all the proof you need. If he wasn't doing anything suspicious he wouldn't have hid that they were women, and used their names instead of male names.

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Ok that 59 year old woman is the phone owners mother. They are in that family plan. He’s not cheating on you with an older woman. If you are concerned use a friend or family member’s phone (who’s number your man doesn’t even know) and call. Do you hear a man or woman answer? If you don’t here a Marco or a Zack say hello then casually/enthusiastically say “hey *insert girls name*? They are more likely to answer engage if you don’t sound like a telemarketer or suspicious. If you confirm it’s two women leave it at that hang up. Later. Call them from your man’s phone OR ya know, just confront him at that point. Get you facts first tho 😉

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Respect & sparkles • Aug 30, 2020
Agree that it could definitely be a family account, as stated above. Makes sense.

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hazel • Aug 19, 2020
This☝️

Pr

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Trust your woman intuition and dig into that, he is definitely doing something. And young men these days like older woman because they call them cougar

Pr

Pr • Jun 13, 2020
The way how some of these men think nothing will surprise you anymore. But they dont understand that woman are always smarter than them

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Sarah • Jun 13, 2020
Or a younger girl is on her moms family plan?

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chelsie • May 10, 2020
THANK YOU SIS!! I ALWAYS SAY THIS!!

Na

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Add it to your contacts so it can show up on WhatsApp and there u can see the profile pic.

Al

Al • Jul 24, 2020
Omg genius!

Se

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Could be their moms phone account. Call them up and see haha

Ka

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I don’t wanna jump to “cheating” but that is super suspicious. Saving a woman’s contact under a mans name is very suspicious.

Ge

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"I tried to casually bring it up and get no answers."I find that a bit bizzare

Sa

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Call the numbers and ask if they know him😂 it just seems weird that they are saved under other names but maybe they could have been someone else’s number who knows I would just ask straight up

Li

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Has he been more distant lately? Or on his phone more than usual? If there’s no saved messages maybe try messaging them saying “hey babe” or something and see how they respond

Al

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I can’t say he is most definitely 100% cheating since no one knows but him, but the fact that he has two women’s numbers under fake names is not a good sign. He is hiding something, no doubt about that. Talk to him and get some answers. If he becomes defensive or doesn’t explain, he is cheating.