my husband and i had been trying for years to conceive. we finally conceived and we were so excited to be parents.

my husband’s brother has a girlfriend and we have never gotten along. lots of wrongs on my part and lots of wrongs on her part. she was jealous and i could feel the jealousy. but i just let it go. i was more concerned about my child than some petty drama on her end.

at 15 weeks i miscarried. we were all distraught. the world has stopped turning for me and all i can think about is trying to conceive again... i just want to be a mommy and that is my top priority. i removed myself from all and any drama possible and kept my mouth shut.

when i was in the hospital a friend ran into the girlfriend and said “i’m so sorry i heard what happened with x is she ok?” the girl ROLLED HER EYES and said “yup” with an attitude.

again. we don’t get along. when we came home, heartbroken. there wasn’t even as much as a message from her, and she kept my husbands brother away from him when my husband needed his brother out of her own selfishness! then posted about having baby fever when my mother in law just lost her first and only grandchild only 2 days after losing my

baby. inconsiderate.

she messaged me about a month ago. a very manipulative apology with a lot of gaslighting. she apologized for her shitty behavior. i cannot stress shitty behavior. while i have moved on from her drama, i cannot seem to get her to leave me alone. i didn’t respond to her apology, as i do not owe her anything and i refuse to allow myself to be involved in any drama from

her.

when bereaved mother’s day came about, she had the audacity to text my mother in law and ask if she thought it was okay to send me this instagram post she saw because she really knew how upset i was when i lost my baby and dropped the name in the text message.

my mother in law told me that i need to let it go and that she meant no harm but i can’t!! she dropped my baby’s name. and i’m in total belief that my mil said she meant no harm!!!! she wants to make things better and thinks because she gave me a manipulating half assed apology she can send me something that is very new, fresh and raw to me???

do i have the right to be upset about this???!!! am i wrong for being angry??? i’m very triggered and i have been a sobbing mess since the text message.