I’m not sure what to do

So I’ve been with my husband for ten years and we got married about a year ago and ever since he just seems like he doesn’t care

Examples

So my grandpa passed aways somewhat recently so when I told him I was sobbing and he just said ok I don’t care

Other time I was leaving for a trip and told him to clean the house well I was gone I get back and the house is disgusting there’s like 50 plates trash all over the place and when I told him to clean up he said no and that I should do it because I’m the one who wants it clean

Multiple time he has commented on my body telling me where i could do some work on he told me I need to lose some more weight because if I keep getting bigger he won’t want to be with me anymore

I don’t know if I should stay because we have a son and another on the way