My dad...

Okay, so my grandfather just passed and my dad was his caregiver and they lived in an apartment. The office people are obviously now telling my dad to either leave of do an application to stay in this apartment. So he’s thinking the worst and that he’s not going to get this apartment and is now asking me to move in... I live in a two bed room apartment with my husband and our son and I’m pregnant with our second. It’s honestly straining to a relationship having someone else live with you. Especially a parent. He says itll only be a few months and I’ll have a built in babysitter and he will cook and help clean yada yada. One part of me is saying no because I don’t wanna feel like I’m on eggshells in my own home and not be able to make a noise while having sex with my husband or walking around naked or whatever plus I’m pregnant and already know the gender and my kids will be sharing a room and I’m going to want to start decorating for the new baby soon and won’t be able to. And the other part of me feels terrible and knows he will guilt trip me as he already has been. I don’t need this stress right now and my husband says the ball is in my court. My dad is also offering $400 a month BUT that’s not even half our rent and not including the other bills that will go up because there will be someone here all day as there’s not usually because me and my husband both work full time jobs. I need some advice y’all I have a huge heart and it’s hard for me to say no sometimes