Any advice??

** didn’t know where else to put this but since it’s a relationship between a mom and daughter I thought it would be ok? **

I live with my mom because I wasn’t able to get a place and my car because of the pandemic. I lost my job also because of the pandemic. I have a place I could rent and have the money to do so, but I don’t have a job. I would love to get or but my mom stands in the way.

I feel trapped. She won’t let me get a job because she doesn’t feel safe enough but yet she scolds me on how I need to live by her rules especially because I don’t pay rent, which I would if she’s let me work.

She pretty much said I was being a slut and I was a disappointment and while she didn’t straight up say “you’re a slut” it was implied. She pretty much said my slutty actions would cause pain to my family. This is a religious household btw and me sleeping over at boys’ house, who i was officially dating, was apparently bringing pain to my family. She was using her past and how it caused pain to her family and how what I’m doing could cause my family to hurt. She was saying that while I can make my own decisions that my decisions could still hurt the family. So because I have sex it’s gonna cause my whole family this unbearable pain?

I need advice on what to do. I have no friends, nowhere to go and everyone is isolating so idk who could take me in atm anyways. How am I supposed to get out of this I environment if she won’t even let her daughter, who is 23, find work?